Wedding Customs Traditions
and Superstions

Wedding Cake, Flowers Boquet Traditional Meanings,
Engagement and Wedding Ring, Wedding Toast,
Good and Bad Omens, and Love Quotes For the Bride and Groom,
Love Songs and Lyrics, Marriage Ceremony, Vows



Wedding Customs Traditions and Superstions

Married when the year is new,
He'll be loving, kind and true.

When February birds do mate
You wed nor dread your fate.

If you wed when March winds blow
Joy and sorrow both you'll know.

Marry in April when you can
Joy for maiden and the man.

Marry in the month of May
And you'll surely rue the day.

Marry when the June roses grow
Over land and sea you'll go.

Those who in July do wed
Must labour for their daily bread.

Whoever wed in August be,
Many a change is sure to see.

Marry in September's shine,
Your living will be rich and fine.

If in October you do marry
Love will come, but riches tarry.

If you wed in bleak November
Only joys will come, remember

When December's snows fall fast,
Marry and true love will last.

Wedding Engagement and Wedding Ring
Customs Traditions and Superstions


The bride wears her engagement ring and wedding ring on the third finger of her left hand. The reason for this is that it that the vein there, is the vein of love which runs directly to the heart. Should the groom accidently drop the wedding ring during the wedding ceremony, the the marriage will be doomed.


Wedding Superstions
Good and Bad Omens

Seeing a rainbow, having the sun shine, meeting a black cat or meeting a chimney sweep, is considered to be a good wedding omen. But, if you see a pig, hare or a lizard running across the road, or seeing an open grave, then it's believed the wedding will be doomed. And, should you meet a nun or a monk, then you will not be able to have children.


Wedding Customs Traditions
The Traditional meanings of wedding flowers:

Apple blossom - Good fortune
Camellia - Gratitude
Carnation - Fascination and love
Chrysanthemum - red - I love you
Chrysanthemum - white - Truth
Cyclamen - Modesty and shyness
Daffodil - Regard
Daisy - Innocence
Fern - Sincerity
Flowering Almond - Hope
Forget-me-not - Remembrance
Gardenia - Joy
Heather - Good luck
Heliotrope - Devotion and faithfulness
Honeysuckle - Generosity
Hyacinth - Loveliness
Hydrangea - Boastfulness
Ivy - Eternal fidelity
Iris - Affection
Japonica - Loveliness
Jasmine - Amiability Lemon blossom - Fidelity in love
Lilac (white) - Youthful innocence
Lily - Majesty Lily-of-the-valley - Return of happiness
Magnolia - Perseverance
Mimosa - Sensitivity
Orange blossom - Purity and virginity
Orchid - Beauty
Peach blossom - Captive
Rose (red) - Love
Rose (peach) - Modesty Rose (white) - Innocence
Rosemary - Remembrance
Snowdrop - Hope
Sweet Pea - Sweet Pleasure
Tulip - Love
Veronica - Fidelity
Violet - Faithfulness

Wedding Superstions

1. Monday for health,
2. Tuesday for wealth,
3. Wednesday best of all,
4. Thursday for losses,
5. Friday for crosses,
6. Saturday for no luck at all

These things are thought to bring luck to the bride:

Something old,
Something new,
Something borrowed,
Something blue,
And a lucky sixpence
In her shoe.

Wedding Customs Traditions and Superstions

Marry in white, you've chosen him right.
Marry in blue, your love will be true.
Marry in pearl, you'll live in a whirl.
Marry in brown, you'll live out of town.
Marry in red, you'd be better off dead.
Marry in yellow, you're in love with the fellow.
Marry in green, you love being seen.
Marry in pink, your family will link.
These things are considered bad luck:


The bride should not make her own wedding gown, and the groom must not see her in her wedding gown before the wedding and only when she arrives at the ceremony.

Wedding Cake and Bouquet
Customs and Superstions

When a single girl places a piece of wedding cake under her pillow, she will dream of her future husband. When the bride tosses her wedding bouquet over her shoulder and a single girl catches it, she will be the next one to marry.


Wedding Toast To The Bride and Groom:

A toast is a way of stating congratulations and best wishes to the bride and groom. This act is done by raising a champagne filled gobblet by the best man.

Marriage Ceremony
Wedding Vows:

I, Desiree, take you Richard,
to be my wedded husband.
To have and to hold,
from this day forward,
for better, for worse,
for richer, for poorer,
in sickness and in health,
to love and to cherish,
'till death do us part.
And hereto I pledge you
my faithfulness.

After the wedding, the custom is
for the groom to carry the bride
through the threshold entrance
of their home.

Wedding Love Quotes

It is only with the heart
that one can see rightly;
what is essential
is invisible to the eye.
Antoine de Saint-Exupery

Grow old along with me! The best is yet to be.
The last of life for which the first was made.
Robert Browning

Well-married a man is winged;
ill-matched, he is shackled.
Henry Ward Beecher

Love is the only flower that grows and blossoms
Without the aid of the seasons.
Kahlil Gibran

Wedding Cake Cocktail Recipes
3/4 oz Gin
3/4 oz Amaretto
Splash Orange Juice
Pineapple Juice
Cream
Blend with ice
Serve in champagne glasses

Honeymoon Mixed Drinks
3/4 oz Apple Brandy
3/4 oz Benedictine
1 tsp Triple Sec
Juice of 1/2 Lemon
Shake with ice
Strain into a cocktail glass

The Chapel of Love

Spring is here
The sky is blue
Birds all sing
As if they knew
Today's the day
We'll say I do
And we'll never
Be lonely anymore
Because we're

Goin' to the chapel and we're
Gonna get married
Goin' to the chapel and we're
Gonna get married
Gee, I really love you and we're
Gonna get married
Goin' to the chapel of love

Bells will ring
The sun will shine
I'll be his and
He'll be mine
We'll love until
The end of time
And we'll never
Be lonely anymore
Because we're

Goin' to the chapel and we're
Gonna get married
Goin' to the chapel and we're
Gonna get married
Gee, I really love you and we're
Gonna get married
Goin' to the chapel of love
Dixie Cups

This I Promise You

When the visions around you
Bring tears to your eyes
And all that surrounds you
Are secrets and lies
I'll be your strength
I'll give you hope
Keeping your faith when it's gone
The one you should call
When you're standing here all alone...

And I will take you in my arms
And hold you right where you belong
Till the day my life is through
This I promise you
This I promise you

I've loved you forever
In lifetimes before
And I promise you never
Will you hurt anymore
I give you my word
I give you my heart
This is a battle we've won
And with this vow,
Forever has now begun...

Just close your eyes each loving day
And I know this feeling won't go away
Till the day my life is through
This I promise you
Oh, I promise you
Every word I say is true
This I promise you
Oh, I promise you

Over and over I fall
When I hear you call
Without you in my life, baby
I just wouldn't be living at all

Just close your eyes each loving day
And I know this feeling won't go away
Till the day my life is through
This I promise you

Every word I say is true
This I promise you
Oh, I promise you
'N Sync

I Do Cherish You

All I am, all I'll be
Everything in this world
All that I'll ever need
Is in your eyes
Shining at me
When you smile I can feel
All my passion unfolding
Your hand brushes mine
And a thousand sensations
Seduce me 'cause
I do

I do cherish you
For the rest of my life
You don't have to think twice
I will love you still
From the depths of my soul
It's beyond my control
I've waited so long to say this to you
If you're asking do I love you this much...
I do.

In my world, before you
I lived outside my emotions
Didn't know where I was going
'Til that day I found you
How you opened my life
To a new paradise
In a world torn by change
Still with all my heart 'Til my dying day...

I do cherish you
For the rest of my life
You don't have to think twice
I will love you still
From the depths of my soul
It's beyond my control
I've waited so long to say this to you
If you're asking
do I love you this much...
I do
98 Degrees


I write to you from here, the happiest, happiest Being that ever existed. Really, I do not think it possible for any one in the world to be happier, or as happy as I am. He is an Angel, and his kindness and affection for me is really touching. To look in those dear eyes, and that dear sunny face, is enough to make me adore him. What I can do to make him happy will be my greatest delight.
Queen Victoria


Nought now was heard, but Love and Dear,
My Dear go there! My Love come here!
And, since it is such charming weather,
O let us take a stroll together;
While she would sing to some fine tune,
"Our life shall be one honeymoon".
William Combe


The Wedding Night

Within the chamber, far away

From the glad feast, sits Love in dread
Lest guests disturb, in wanton play,

The silence of the bridal bed.
His torch's pale flame serves to gild

The scene with mystic sacred glow;
The room with incense-clouds is fil'd,

That ye may perfect rapture know.

How beats thy heart, when thou dost hear

The chime that warns thy guests to fly!
How glow'st thou for those lips so dear,

That soon are mute, and nought deny!
With her into the holy place

Thou hast'nest then, to perfect all;
The fire the warder's hands embrace,

Grows, like a night-light, dim and small.

How heaves her bosom, and how burns

Her face at every fervent kiss!
Her coldness now to trembling turns,

Thy daring now a duty is.
Love helps thee to undress her fast,

But thou art twice as fast as he;
And then he shuts both eye at last,

With sly and roguish modesty.
Johann Wolfgang von Goethe


A lady's imagination is very rapid;
it jumps from admiration to love,
from love to matrimony, in a moment.
Jane Austen

The recipe for marriage needs but
only one ingredient,
and that is Mutual Respect.
And then, and only then,
a long life of love will follow.

Kahlil Gibran The Prophet
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